Have you ever being in love? What and what drew you
together? I have sat down to reason about this particular natural phenomenon
and have since found no answers to them. But tell me anyway, what is love? For this one, I would answer myself and maybe
you would tell me the 7 mysteries about it then. Love is the understanding held between two or more people over a
particular period of time. That is love...surprised. Take a look at it
again and maybe you would understand me then.
1.
WHAT IS THE
ACTUAL MEANING OF LOVE; IS THERE ANY AT ALL?
I have been on the web researching about
love and its meaning. Great philosophers and Scientists have come out with the
meaning of love and some ‘compositions’. I took a look at the different meaning
and ask myself, is that really it? I looked at different situations and finally
I concluded that; LOVE IS THE UNDERSTANDING HELD BETWEEN TWO OR MORE PEOPLE
OVER A PARTICULAR PERIOD OF TIME. Think
you me lying, then maybe you would tell me what you have on love. Let me
make this one thing clear; if you can die for her or him, or maybe a group that
is love. And now this guy is talking
thrash. How can you die for her better still him or maybe a group? The
relationship between a mother and a son, a girl and a boy dating, is there any
differences? Align them with the relationship with the other and I tell you,
the latter is love instead.
2.
WHAT MAKES
LOVE?
The thought of this alone sends me thinking
over and over again. Not because I want to but because it makes me wander. I
have seen my friend behave in a different way on beginning to date a girl. His way of behaviour and thought changed from
that moment. And now the question is this; what
makes love? What is it that is in it that makes it virtually for everyone
who truly is ‘in’ love to behave
differently? Is there any substance at all in it? What is or are the
compositions? Is it a substance and even if, thick or thin? What is it that
actually comprises of it? Is there something in it and even if there is, what
is it?
WHAT IS THE ORIGIN OF LOVE AT ALL?
1.
Love may never get old but it is old. Sounds
funny? Or better still the songs accrued from it? This originates from
an area around the Tigris and Euphrates rivers, the earliest known written record of love songs were pressed into clay
tablets and were written in praise of Sumerian gods and goddesses.
3.
HOW DOES IS
ALL START AND END?
Humans are able to judge the suitability of
a potential partner in a very short amount of time- a matter of seconds even,
according to researchers at Pennsylvania University. A study they carried out
revealed that falling for someone when you first meet them is attributed to
patterns in the brain that point to a direct link between facial attractiveness
and positive traits. I sometimes do not see the connection between the start
and the end. We begin to date and we see our relationship to be the best of all
in the world and the next moment we think it is nothing after all. About the
research made, that is love at first sight. But the interesting thing is that
the break ups does not come so quick as the latter. It takes some time and
later we voice it out.
4.
DO WE
REALLY FALL IN LOVE?
Why the words ‘fall’? Let us take a
critical look at the word and some rationality here. If someone falls into
something, it is often preceded with some sort of mayhem or bad circumstances.
The word ‘fall’ denotes some degrading movements or actions that which
has befallen you or on something. Here now, we are talking about love. Knowing
full well that ‘love’ is something sweet and so touching to thinking of. But if
we really fall in love, why then don’t we say that we have risen from love when
we broke up? You will always here this ‘The love I have for him or she has
faded or better still has died down.’ It surprises me when at different points
in time we use the words we like depending on what we have found ourselves in.
That is the fact. In my case, I would say we walk into love and when we’re done
breaking up, it is walking out. Sounds funny right? If you walk yourself into
something, you can either expect a good or bad thing. Nonetheless, if you are
walking out, it may be for a good reason or a bad one.
5.
IS THERE A
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRUE LOVE AND LOVE?
A friend of mine saw a scene on a
television. It was about a girl who left his parents in search of his lover
after a swift misunderstanding. My friend looked at me and said ‘Dave, this is
true love, she really loves him.’ I asked myself then if ever there is a false
or ordinary love. In any case, let me tell you, some guys or ladies can fake
love. Here it takes in depth analysis and knowledge for you to be able to
detect it. I would understand you here if you tell me that that is not real
love. It would surprise you that the lady or guy whom you are dating might have
faked love. It is the main reason why you would have to be very sharp in
movements in and out. The differences come in where this is done here and
there, the other is not done. That is what brings out the ‘true’ love thing
out. It all depends on the action
exhibited.
6.
HOW DO YOU
TELL IF SOMEONE REALLY LOVES YOU?
This is one of the questions a colleague
girl once asked me. Funny enough, it can
be divided into two different perspectives. How can you tell if a girl loves
you? What about a boy loving you, how can you figure it out? I would repeat it
again; some people can fake love just as others can fake orgasm. Now a day,
guys also do fake orgasm. Never mind let us comeback to track. To tell if
someone really loves you or not, you need to be very particular about the
actions and inaction's of the individual. Know what the individual likes and
don’t likes, line them up with the current actions that your guy or lady is
doing. Don’t be too quick either to rush into conclusions or your partner’s
behaviour as it may mean another thing. Since the bedrock of love is trust, whenever
she blushes, it means that she can be trusted. It is just a tip anyway. When
you are going to school, you learn educational materials, when at church, you
listen and read the bible and now that you’ve walked into love, read love
materials.
Wants more of such like this; just relax
for surely its every Saturday Special on my blog. I will bring you dating tips
and what needs doing in relationships. Get ready for anything sentimental,
emotions and you inner being as a whole. It is this and every Saturday.
-Lin Collins
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